One big tip to move forward
by David Sweetnam on July 15, 2010
Just after a break up, sometimes the last thing guys want to be told is “move on ‘bro!” Perhaps they feel they’re not ready to, or maybe they still want to make up with their ex. The irony of all this is that you’ll have more chances of improving your relationship after you’ve moved on. But as I often say: “if you can’t move on, move forward.”
With this in mind, one thing to propel you forward is to put down all the books you have at home or get off the computer and to create new experiences for yourself.
And summer is just the time for it!
Hop on a plane, boat or train
Travel is a great way for you to create more distance between how you felt on break up day and how you are now. It gives you a better perspective on things. It gives you new stories to tell. Travel can make you smile, and bring new people into your world, as you bring yourself into theirs. It can be a party or a time of great introspection. It can get you refreshed and give you the momentum to move forward with things when you return home.
It reminds you there’s a big world out there and that your world can be bigger than the situation with your ex.
Is there a place you’ve always dreamed of visiting? Well this is the time to do it! Leave the comfort of your own surroundings back home and step up for this adventure!
Weekend getaways and home town secrets
Taking a break can do you the world of good. But what if you’re broke or have serious responsibilities that prevent you from travelling far? I’m sure you can find a place not far from your city where you can go. If you’re in Prague, then there are mountains just up the road, and rivers and lakes within a few hours’ drive. From Vancouver, there’s Whistler and the wonders of Vancouver Island at your doorstep, and Seattle isn’t far either. What about near you?
Even a trip to another part of town can give you a boost. Every city has a part where visitors go – why not be a tourist in your own town?!
You can get stuck in a rut after a break up if you don’t start to do new things. Just take a step outside away from your usual routine, and see where it leads you.
Travel can do wonders for the soul – write your comments about the trip you’re going on below!
david (at)bouncebackfromabreakup.com
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